How did I learn to write… The most obvious answer is that I've been a writer all my life. Writing has always come naturally to me, but it takes a lot of practice.
As early as second grade, I remember keeping a secret journal in which I would write something new every day. Sometimes, it was something articulate and well-thought-out. Sometimes, it was as simple as, “Today I didn’t do anything special, so dear Diary, I’d better go to bed.” But at least I wrote something! Even if it was only one line, it was part of my commitment to it—every single day.
Because, let’s be honest, writing can be hard. Most of the time, you must push yourself to write to completion. The romanticized portrayal of the “inspired writer” who fills pages with ease is not how it typically works. Continuing with my childhood persistence, I still feel compelled to sit down and write, even when I don't feel like it. Writing is often the result of pushing yourself into it.
Regrettably, in Italy, creative writing isn't formally recognized as an academic discipline. However, I was fortunate to learn it from Loredana Dova, my creative writing tutor and an accomplished writer herself, during my teenage years. Her influence in shaping my development as both a reader and a writer was pivotal. She imparted a crucial lesson: first drafts are… well… rarely perfect. This realization prepares one for extensive editing, an integral part of the writing process. She would constantly repeat, “Cut and trim, Milena, cut and trim until you get a beautiful bonsai text!”. This is still my mantra today.
Moreover, despite its challenges, seeking feedback is essential for improvement. After completing a piece, it's valuable to present it to discerning reviewers for their insights. Choosing a support network wisely is important—mentors and peers who provide constructive criticism while nurturing your creative potential. Initially, receiving feedback can be an emotional rollercoaster, often starting with frustration, followed by a self-reflection phase. Eventually, this process leads to a newfound balance and enhances the quality of your writing.
Having experienced this journey myself, I understand that many possess the innate ability to craft compelling stories. Yet, it's crucial to remember that writing is a continuous process that demands dedication, discipline, and humility. So, the best advice I can offer is simply to begin and persist in your writing endeavors. Keep writing!
You can check out my published work here.